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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 12, 20175 min read
Stop Hitting Yourself!
In The Princess Bride one character keeps using the term “inconceivable.” Every time he says something is inconceivable the thing...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 2, 20173 min read
Kinky Resistance
Let’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 31, 20172 min read
My Body, The Asshole
I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 24, 20173 min read
The Submissive Advantage
Submissives are some of the most seductive people in the world. Regardless of what we look like, if we are introverts or extroverts, or...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20174 min read
Sex, Lies, and Videotape
Lately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g.,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 13, 20174 min read
Love in Times of Great Danger
I have never chosen a partner to make a political point. However, I live in a country where my body and my sexuality are constantly under...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20176 min read
10 Things You Can Do To Increase Intimacy
I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20173 min read
You Want Hair Where!?!
Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 29, 20165 min read
What 2016 Can Teach You About Relationships
By most accounts, unless you are a rape-y cheeto with narcissistic personality disorder, this was a shit year. People are hoping 2017...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 20, 20163 min read
Ethical Monogamy
People who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 19, 20163 min read
36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)
Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 13, 20164 min read
Pronoun Wars
The presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 6, 20165 min read
Good Kinky Fun vs. Abuse
If I am really honest about some kink behavior, it looks like abuse out of context. I have seen more than one play scene where the bottom...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 27, 20165 min read
It Burns When I Pee!!!
Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 22, 20163 min read
Giving Thanks
Since Thanksgiving is this week in the United States, I am going to step out of the series of posts on community building and give thanks...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 21, 20165 min read
And What Did Protocol Give You?
I love protocols. I have found safety and security in protocol for years. It helps me get into submissive head space. It can create...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 19, 20165 min read
Kinky Folks, We Better Work
Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 16, 20165 min read
This Isn’t About JUST Race
We are six days out from the shock of the cheeto’s election. Things are starting to clarify how various social justice groups are going...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 13, 20162 min read
But Will It Play in Peoria?
I came out in 1988. Gay rights (it was called Gay rights at the time) were beginning to get some momentum. However, the queer movement...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 10, 20163 min read
Build Community, Not Walls
The recent election of the racist cheeto has many folks in the kink community reeling. We are hurt and horrified by the hate harbored in...
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