Rebecca BlantonMar 17, 20158 min readThe Language of Love – And Why It Fails MeI have a language problem. No, it’s not cursing (living with a 14 year old made me clean that up). It has to do with the language we use...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 22, 20158 min readNew to Kink? Curios about BDSM? Start hereThis is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 21, 20156 min readNon-Monogamy – Its More Popular Than You ThinkFor a long time it was odd to me that I could be in a social situation where my multiple intimate partners were present, we would all be...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 18, 20154 min readFinding Love in a French PressLike most American girls, I was raised with a specific idea of what romance looked like. Romance was a guy bringing you flowers on the...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 11, 20154 min readWhy the Anti-Porn Folks are Wrong About 50 ShadeThere are several avidly anti-porn groups that are doing huge social media pushes asking people to boycott 50 Shades of Grey. The general...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 2, 20152 min readBasic Resources for SubmissivesThis is the beginning of a list of vetted BDSM and kink resources. This list is intended for educational purposes, not erotica or...
Rebecca BlantonJan 26, 20159 min readMisconceptions About BDSM and Mental Illness(Thank you Aunt Nan for inspiring this post with your last email.) In the last year I have disclosed a couple of facts about me that most...
Rebecca BlantonJan 12, 20156 min readWhy the Movie Release of 50 Shades Concerns MeWith the upcoming release of 50 Shades the movie, there is a lot of talk on mainstream blogs about kink (e.g., Huff Post, Slate, NYT)....