Essential Safety Gear for Kinky Play
Most people who teach kink and BDSM play classes will mention having the appropriate safety equipment around in case of emergency....
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20214 min read
7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink World
Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 11, 20215 min read
6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)
Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 8, 20216 min read
9 Tips To Make Your Kink Venue More Accessible (Part 1)
I miss going to dungeons and play parties! I can’t wait for the world to finally be able to safely reopen. That said, I don’t want things...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 22, 20215 min read
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 16, 20214 min read
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 10, 20214 min read
Do You Always Need a Safe Word?
Safe words are one of the most referenced kink ideas. The concept of a simple word which stops all action and indicates someone is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 25, 20213 min read
Sexy Valentine’s Day Inspirations!
Valentine’s Day is rapidly approaching (again). Even if you are jaded toward this corporate day of forced romance and sex, you can still...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20213 min read
Expanding Your Kink
January 2021 brings both the desire to set goals for the new year and marks ten months in various stages of lockdown for most of us. Many...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20213 min read
Is BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years later
Four years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 8, 20209 min read
Subordinate Clause
Happy Holidays! Here is a little kinky holiday porn for y’all. CW: Impact play, body fluids Elise sat by the fire on the early morning of...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20203 min read
New Year! Better, Kinkier YOU!
I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20204 min read
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 21, 20205 min read
Happy Spanksgiving! Holiday Gift Ideas for the Kinky Set
The saying is giving is better than recieving, but I think that depends on what side of the slash you are working from! Looking for...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 16, 202010 min read
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 31, 20205 min read
Election 2020 and Erotic Power
With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 15, 20204 min read
Anticipatory Service
Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 17, 20203 min read
How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 8, 20201 min read
The Future of Gender
I did an interview for Unleash Their PoTEENtial a free, online teen summit about the future of gender (spoiler alert: its nonbinary)....
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 14, 202010 min read
30 Days of Kinky Self Discovery
A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...
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