Publications

Love Letters to a Unicorn: A book about BDSM, Kink and Non-monogamy

Love Letters to a Unicorn explores the world of kink and BDSM through the submissive perspective. This book explores the various aspect of kink: power exchange, fetishes, community and consent. The author, Rebecca Blanton, uses a personal perspective of three decades living as a submissive along with academic research to explain various aspects of kink.Essays cover how kink and BDSM compliment third wave feminism; how the kink community’s approach to consent contribute to the larger consent discussion post-#MeToo; what everyone can learn from kink; the unique psychological phenomena of sub space; and more!The first edition was nominated for the Geoff Mains Award for nonfiction and the Golden Flogger Award for nonfiction.The second edition has been updated to make the language more accessible, to address some of the concerns readers expressed with the first edition, and to include new essays including updates on consent conversation and sub space.

The Big Workbook for Submissives

This book contains exercises, readings and games to help anyone explore and deepen their submissive side. If you have been a submissive for many years or are just beginning to explore your more submissive side, this workbook will help guide you through that journey. A combination of essays, writing exercises, games, and homework help anyone- of any gender, sexual orientation and relationship orientation- discover what submission means to them.

Kinky Dating

Finally, a book about dating online and off that really dives into what it takes to meet other kinky people.

Whether you are bedroom-only or 24/7 lifestyle. Whether you identify as kinky, polyamorous, BDSM, leather, fetish, Dating Kinky is packed full of practical information and proven tips and suggestions to find and connect with the RIGHT person or people for love, sex, play, friendship and more.