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Title | Author | Year | Link to publication |
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Excluded: Making the Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive | Julia Serano | 2013 | https://www.juliaserano.com/sexedup.html |
Sexed Up: How Society Sexualize Us, and How We Can Fight Back | Julia Serano | 2024 | https://www.juliaserano.com/sexedup.html |
Veterans Resource Guide | USVA | 2024 | http:// veteransguide.org |
A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten | Tristan Tiramino | 2024 | |
Cuckoo | Gretchen Felker-Martin | 2025 | |
Thick | Tressie McMillian Cottom | ||
Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body | Roxane Gay | ||
Excluded | Julia Serano | ||
Cruz, Ariane | The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Poronography | 2016 | |
Brame, Gloria and William Brame | Different Loving, Too: Real Loving, Real People, and BDSM | 2015 | |
Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasies: | Blue, Violet and Carol Queen | 2014 | |
The Body Keeps the Scoer | van der Kolk, Bessel | 2015 | https://amzn.to/3AuSpEN |
Fulman, Anton. | The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play with Power and Scenes in a Relationship | 2019 | |
Notes From an Aging Pervert | Hardy, Janet | 2023 | |
BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism | Ayzad | 2016 | https://amzn.to/3Ldu9JL |
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence | Perel, Ester | 2009 | https://amzn.to/3Z9VVfN |
Love is Not Colorblind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities | Patterson, Kevin and Ruby Bouie Johnson | 2018 | https://amzn.to/3L9LNxK |
Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring erotic humiliation | Kali, Princess | 2022 | https://amzn.to/3RaSmUB |
365 Days of Submission: A Journal of Submissive Self-Discovery | Carruthers, Luna | 2021 | https://amzn.to/45VZOar |
Sapphistry: The book of lesbian sexuality | Califia-Rice, Patrick | 1980 | https://amzn.to/44FqHyb |
SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude | Baldwin, Guy | 2002 | https://amzn.to/3LbrZKA |
Heart of Dominance | Fulman, Anton | 2021 | https://amzn.to/3Pusz8V |
When Someone You Love is Kinky | Easson, Dossie | 2013 | https://amzn.to/3Ld3yMZ |
The New Bottoming Book | Dossie Eason and Janet Hardy | 2011 | https://amzn.to/485359q |
A Piece of the Heart Can't Be Eaten | Taormino, Tristan | 2023 | |
The Body LIberation Project | King, Chrissy | 2023 | https://amzn.to/3pOjsWn |
The Pegging Book | Miller, Cooper and Lyndzi Miiller | 2023 | https://amzn.to/43yl6sV |
The Body Keeps the Score | van der Kolk, Bessel | 2014 | https://amzn.to/3OdYABq |
The Body Is Not an Apology | Taylor, Sonia Renee | 2021 | https://amzn.to/43qlp9q |
The Polyamory Toolkit | Williams, Dan and Dawn Williams | 2019 | https://amzn.to/3OgIruW |
Hearts and Collars | Williams, Dan and Dawn Williams | 2023 | https://amzn.to/3OgIruW |
101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do | Sloan, Kate | 2021 | https://amzn.to/3OgIruW |
Kink for the Curious | Strange, Natasha | 2023 | https://amzn.to/3Dh52Bu |
Differnt Loving | Brame, William; Gloria Brame, and Jon Jacobs | 1996 | https://amzn.to/3XRM51o |
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction | Weissman, Jay | 1996 | https://amzn.to/3OfZvkE |
Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook | Stryker, Kitty | 2019 | https://amzn.to/3OfZvkE |
Ask: Building Consent Culture | Stryker, Kitty | 2017 | https://amzn.to/46MZThP |
Playing Well with Others | Harrington, Lee; Mollena Willians; | 2019 | https://amzn.to/46MZThP |
Bondge for Ever Body | Vane, Evie | 2018 | https://amzn.to/3K0VZrR |
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up | Vane, Evie | 2019 | https://amzn.to/3K0VZrR |
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships | Taoromino, Tristan | 2011 | https://amzn.to/3PT1cG4 |
The Ultimate Guide to Kink | Taoromino, Tristan and others | 2017 | https://amzn.to/3NSWW6W |
Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Path to Enlightment and Beyond | Harrington, Lee | 2016 | https://amzn.to/3pTMST5 |
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink | Midori | 2013 | https://amzn.to/3XUPnB1 |
The Seducative Art of Japanese Bondage | Midori and Craig Money | 2001 | https://amzn.to/3K0Vvlx |
More Than Two | Veaux, Frank; Eva Rickett, and Jessica Fern | 2022 | https://amzn.to/3PYvh7h |
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Open Relationships | Fern, Jessica and Nora Samaran | 2020 | https://amzn.to/3Odrlhs |
The Ethical Slut. | Hardy, Janet and Dossie Easson | 2012 | https://amzn.to/3NX8NAT |
The Bew Bottoming Book | Hardy, Janet and Dossie Easson. | 2017 | https://amzn.to/3NX8NAT |
The New Topping Book | Eason, Dossie and Janet Hardy | 2003 | https://amzn.to/3XUHmfB |
Dating Kinky | Nookie Notes | 2018 | https://amzn.to/3OfcnYf |
Love Letters to a Unicorn: A book about BDSM, Kink, & Nonmonogamy | Blanton, Rebeca | 2015 | https://amzn.to/3OfcnYf |
30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery | Blanton, Rebecca | 2023 | https://amzn.to/3OfcnYf |
The Big Workbook for Submissives | Blanton, Rebecca. | 2022 | https://amzn.to/3DhvpHc |
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